The girl with the five lads 1 square-dotted-red child-1051288_960_720 sleeping-1159279_960_720 alarm-clock-1191561_960_720 converse-925773_960_720 vegetables-760860 valentines-day-1182245_1920 cup-779284_960_720 bed-1158267_1920 foot-1582294_960_720 metro-1179249
IMG_2868 orange-841788_960_720 12510494_1673902519555985_3984683091785219255_n 165061978 toddler-1250658

Subscribe to my blogs @


If you found me it is possible you either have a Fibromyalgia, you are a woman or Mummy like me.  Already we have something massive in common!


Any of these things or simply adulting can make us lose sight of all the wonderful things within our life.


It is so easy to lose your smile and the ability to appreciate the simple wonderful things around you. Hopefully, I can help shine some love and light on your smile again.


My aim is to share positivity and help others find happiness.


The blog covers the ordinary life as a family, chronic illness, all things beauty, makeup, style, fashion, crafting, recipes and positive living.



Read more Read more Read more Read more Read more nominated-

© The Girl With The Five Lads. All rights reserved.


To the chopped veg haters.

Walk in my Fibromyalgia shoes?

Sick of inviting out your chronic

illness friend?

What a Fibro Flare feels like

Thinking of being an egg donor?

Best New Blog

Vital Plan Restore Program

Read how I go on with a program designed  to place your body in an environment for optimal healing.

Read more

Aids to help with Fibromyalgia

For me, one of the hardest aspects of fibromyalgia is the changes to my independence. I was not prepared for any changes to this aspect of my life.

Read more


Have you desensitised your own chronic illness?

August 2016 Posts

Hello, I am Ness and welcome to my blog.


The girl with the five lads is my blog about family life when Mum has Fibromyalgia and other chronic illness. I have 5 sons, love red lipstick and I always have a massive smile.


I am a Qualified complementary therapist and Earth Mamma. I started this blog as a way to show other people with the same illness that you can still find happiness being poorly sick.

social_media_black_icons_by_yakoubbazzar-d9kfpqs Pinterest circle white large

Date ideas with chronic illness

Read more

The N:rem sleep system review

Weight gain, dieting

and Fibromyalgia

Read more Read more

Are you a parent blogger?

Read more Read more

MEDICAL DISCLAIMER: The contents within this website are not intended to diagnose or treat any disease, or serve as a substitute for medical advice. Please consult with your advising physician for any disease and/or disorder you are experiencing.  The Girl with the five lads, shall not be held liable or responsible for any misunderstanding or misuse of the information contained on this site or for any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by any treatment, action, or application of any advice discussed in this site.

Follow me on Instagram...

Would you like to contact me?

mighty-newsletter-logo 13697244_1642985262686362_4040375849063368327_n (1) a482e5cb-ceb8-4228-a7dd-45f1b49c62de
Read more

The N:rem sleep system review


Being a Qualified Complementary Therapist who then developed Fibromyalgia I am often asked what I recommend as a natural relief from fibromyalgia pain?


People always want a herb or therapy to be recommended so often seem confused when I waffle on about posture, shoes, sleeping, what bra they wear, mattress on their bed.

square-dotted-red square-dotted-red square-dotted-red square-dotted-red square-dotted-red square-dotted-red square-dotted-red